Indonesia
Saying
“Love” to a person that we interest is not easy thing to do, you must have
enough courage to do that. But now I won’t discuss about how to express the
love feeling, but I will discuss about how come the culture can influence the
way you express your love. In Indonesia we have an interesting step when we
want to say love to someone. In Indonesia usually a man say love to a woman by
verbal message such say “Aku sayang sama kamu, mau gak jadi pacarku ?” or
sometimes they use the formal words such “aku ingin serius dengan kamu, maukah
kamu dan aku membawa hubungan ini ke tingkat yang selanjutnya”. But the
Interesting point is not about how to say that, but in Indonesia we have a
session call “Pendekatan” or the young people know it as “PDKT” in this
session, each other begin to have the communication and do the first date but
they still don’t have the status as a couple. Why is this session become
interesting ? As we know Indonesia is the country who has the high context,
high power distance, and high content communication. This aspect of the
communication show that Indonesia is Poly chronic, Sensitive, and the most
important is Gesture and Nonverbal message country. So, sometimes we don’t show it directly so we
make it like codes to give the signal to the person we like. If the respond is
quite good that’s mean there is a change to become a couple.
French
Land of Love this is the nick name of this country, what a
beautiful nick name that they have. Yes such like the name French is the best
country to say “love” to someone you love, because this country have a lot of
beautiful place where you can get the perfect moment in this country such like
Eifel Tower, Arc de triomphe de l'Étoile, and Pont Neuf those make French really
romantic. But the people in French are not really romantic, they not usually do
something such Indonesia do who say “aku sayang kamu” to express their feeling.
But in French they know each other feeling from what the thing both of them do
together. For example a woman and a man who have date everyday, and they show a
lot o romantic thing between them. So they have known that they love each other.
That is the romantic way to expressing love, maybe I can call it “Silent Love”
it so interesting.
Brazil
Rio
Olympic 2016 leave an amazing experience of this country, Brazil is the country
at the south of America this country is the country which have a lot of amazing
culture. Such like Rege, Kapoera, and Etc. Brazil become popular because of a
lot beautiful women who came from this country, such like Daniella Sarahyba
Fernandes, Adriana Lima, and Alessandro Ambrosio. So that’s why most people think
that Brazil is the country which have rights to date. In Brazil they have 2
steps in express the love to the other person.
First is
Ficar, Ficar is a step in brazil people to begin the communication and begin to
interested each other and doing such like a couple but in this case they still
don’t have any status. So in Indonesia you can call it “TTM” or “Teman Tapi
Mesra” this is the Interesting point.
The after
pass the Ficar step a couple have get into the second step it’s call Namoar. In
this step a couple who know each other and fell in love each other will prepare
to the engagement before get married.
So the interesting point in this country is they don’t have
the stage that Indonesian people call “Pacaran”.
Thank you for reading my writing, I’m sorry if there is
something wrong about my article and I hope my article become useful for you.
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